Although I almost never discuss personal relationship-related or singlehood matters on my Facebook feed, however, lately, Facebook has started to suggest groups devoted to finding chatting partners belonging to the opposite gender. Almost all of the suggestions by the Meta-owned platform spectacularly fail to meet my standards of a decent chatting partner. Those of you now thinking that they are busy reading a post written by a religiously inclined person, rest assured that I am an agnostic living in Pakistan who has been outspoken about the introduction of religious reforms in Pakistan, albeit to no avail.
Now to the core issue that has prompted this post based on Facebook has started to suggest lately. Just a couple of days ago, I was presented with a group whose first post started with the image which is now the main image of this post that you are reading and the Facebook post posed the following question, “How are you feeling now?”
The spectacularly simple answer from a decent person’s point of view is utterly aghast and exasperated that some women believe that a conversation should start on such a note. Whenever I see an image or two on these lines as a person’s way of starting a conversation, I swiftly ban such people. Women and girls looking for decent, serious partners, you desperately need to grow up a little. By presenting such material and appealing to the animalistic tendencies of a person to start a conversation, you will almost always attract the attention of males who are colloquially called “players” — boys and men there to have some short-term fun but with a firm plan to move on to the next person. This is a horrendous way to attract the attention of well-educated, serious individuals, and even more horrific a plan if the person in question is an extremely intelligent creature, too.
These women whose game plan almost always revolves around revealing their curves and extra skin to attract sexual partners then focus all their energies on blaming men that these men were only ever after their bodies and left swiftly after a few encounters. By trying to initiate a relationship in this manner, which type of a man or group’s attention do they expect to attract in the first place? A decent, intelligent, serious person would swiftly deem them utterly unworthy of his consideration! Horrific plan to even attempt to start a serious relationship. As a woman, if you are not after a short sexual encounter, then learn some manners when it comes to attracting the attention of decent, intelligent humans.
After seeing such images and sexually suggestive posts, I always find myself on the fastest jet skis available to mankind while looking for the nearest exit from such a place.
Regarding the recklessness of this particular approach and deeming it unbecoming of a decent person, I find myself in good company. Even authors and scriptwriters in America and Britain have been talking about it and agree with my sentiment that these women and girls are doing a marvelous job of scaring away decent, serious, intelligent individuals. Here are a couple of short clips taken from two different mediums, one a sitcom written by a British author and another a Hollywood movie written by an American author. One is from “Easy A,” a Hollywood movie starring Emma Stone, and the other is from “The Thin Blue Line,” a British Sitcom starring Rowan Atkinson and Serena Evans. These scripts have nothing to do with the “Narrow-mindedness” of an agnostic Pakistani living in Pakistan.
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